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The Confidence Man

Chicks want to meet, get to know, fuck confident guys. Confidence diminishes the importance of looks and body; it enhances humor. It’s the answer to that question we’ve all asked before: Why is that knockout with that dud? Simple. She’s with him because he’s confident (or rich, but we won’t discuss that now). Be confident with the ladies, and you’ll never have a problem getting a stunner into the sack again.

For a prime example of how we react to confidence in comparison to insecurity, look at your television programming. We are attracted to people on scripted tv shows whose characters are presented with confidence (even the insecure characters are confident in their insecurity). Then look at how we react to a lack of confidence, or insecurity, from people on reality tv. Admit it, you want to punch those assholes in the face.

I’ll never forget the time I was out partying with some friends. I was flirting with a chick on and off for most the night. As the night wore on, I began to get a little board, so I decided to escalate the flirtations. I grabbed the girl’s ass firmly. It was a nice, tight, 22 year old ass just asking to be squeezed. She turned to me, surprised at my dirtbag groping, and asked, “Why did you do that?” I confidently responded, “You fucking liked it.” And you know what? She did. My confident response to her accusing question stunned her to the point overwhelming sexual arousal. Her demeanor changed. She had found her man. We both knew from there that sex was inevitable. And it was.

In spite of the feminist movement out there, women still want a man to be a man. She wants him to be strong and resolute. Chicks want their guy to know what to do in any contingency. Women won’t admit they want to be looked after, but they want to be looked after, not always, but at any moment, sparked by any event, they need to know their guy is going be able to look after them. Use her need as a gateway to take care of your need. Let her know you can be this man, her man, by the way you speak, look her in the eyes, hold your head up, dress. Confidence comes from within and without.

Chicks fantasize about meeting an attractive, confident stranger. They won’t tell you this, but they do. It’s a common theme in all their romance novels (so I hear). They’re waiting, to have you take her to some romantic hotel for a meet and greet fucking. They want you to approach them, talk to them, make them laugh, feel special in their own sexual adventure. Trust me, they want it.

So see that chick across the room. Scout her without being obvious or creepy — that part’s important. Don’t second guess yourself, don’t build the moment up in your mind. When you approach her, look her in the eye and say something cool, funny, whatever, it doesn’t matter, because you’re a confidence man and whatever you say, she’s gonna fucking like it.

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